4. Why do I always feel so lonely?
Read Chapter 4 in the book
Loneliness arises from the belief in the illusion of separation.
The belief is that you are separate from Love, God, All
That Is--along with the belief that you are separate from
your responsibility in creating your reality. No matter
how many times you have experienced abandonment from the
outside world, it is you who are now abandoning yourself
and that continually creates the feeling of being lonely.
So ask yourself, “How am I not showing up for myself?--What
loving self-care can I begin doing for myself?” When
you begin taking loving action for yourself, you will begin
to feel and then you will be able to remember the true love
that you are.
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The truth is that
God is Love and God is All That Is. If God
is Love and if God is All That Is, one can only conclude
that nowhere is there anything but Love. We were all created
in love, made as glorious reproductions of our Creator.
Love is the will of the All; it is the motivating force
in all things, even in fearful things. So, what is fear?
Fear is the absence of the knowledge of Love
but not different than Love. Fear is absence
of knowledge -a condition created in the realm of perspective
or belief. This realm is extremely powerful since your perspective
or belief determines your interpretation of your circumstances
and ultimately defines your experience. Some familiar forms
of fear are jealousy, resentment, anger, envy, frustration,
and intolerance. These fears are simply, “False
Evidence Appearing Real”.
The truth is…
we are Spiritual Beings having a Human experience. We are
all sprung from the same divine root and that root is unlimited,
infinite, and free by its essential nature. We all contain
this same divine, unlimited, infinite, and free core within
our hearts. The truth is you cannot ever be otherwise, although
you have free choice to play with the polarity - the judgment
aspects of your Mind, continually creating illusions of
bondage, servitude and the need to control. The
whole of God is in every part of you because your divinity
is total and absolute. Many of us have thought
it was the other way around. You have never
been separate from Love for an instant and never will be,
because it is your true identity.
Man sees himself as having
fallen from grace and therefore cannot be part of the Spirit
of God! This is how the illusion of separation from God
was created. When you open your hearts to the love you have
for yourself, you will see the world transform and begin
to experience more love in your life. Gandhi said it so
perfectly, “Be the change you wish to
see in the world.” All you have to be
is who you already truly are - Love in
Transformation is not an intellectual
process so your negative beliefs can slow or even stop the
process from happening. Individually, transformation begins
when you simply say “yes” to your
heart, “yes” to love. Transformation
occurs when you embrace and totally accept the truth that
is found in your heart. Transformation is not about the
intellect. If we could transform by our intellect, our world
would be a very different place. The intellect does not,
cannot, do it. The intellect was designed to be the servant
of the heart; however, through eons of time we have managed
to allow the intellect to be the servant of the Ego. The
way to transformation is to love absolutely that baby girl
or baby boy that lives within you and desires only absolute,
As we evolve as human beings
we are coming to know the truth that we are all created
in Love and are spiritual beings.
The heart is the source of your power, treasure, freedom,
identity, and life. The heart is forever connected to God,
and through the heart you will receive your blessings, the
treasures of joy, love and the ever greater abundance waiting
To experience joy in your
lives, all that is necessary is for you to return to your
heart. The heart is the key to the treasures held for you
beyond time and unlimited possibilities. Dispel the illusion
of negativity by placing your attention on your heart and
using the Power of Love you find there
to shape the world you want.
In your heart your
Truth is found. You are co-creators, made in God’s
image and thus you manifest the beliefs of your heart. The
heart is where you are connected to God, so all the power,
all the light, all the love of God pours directly and unfailingly
to and through your heart.
If deep in your heart you
are afraid, if you believe your heart is broken, if you
are afraid that love will hurt, if you keep yourself protected,
if you feel the world is hopeless, if you feel that life
is not worth it, if you feel the world is about to end be
it from pollution, chaos or war, then God’s response
is… so it is! Whatever is placed before the opening
of your heart is what God/Love will bring forth to help
you create. You are the heart of God gone forth to create.
There is only Love to create with.
Awaken to the truth of love and place your every resource
with your true and glorious heart and you will come to the
realization that Love is the only power.
Truly, it is the heart with which you always create. It
is your Ego and Mind that places judgment on what you experience,
and up until now, filters what you actually draw in and
recognize as your experience.
Find the courage to tell the
truth. “The truth will set you free.”
The heart is your link to the essence of the soul.
It is in this connection, this capacity, that you are capable
of containing and accessing wisdom. Clarity of emotions
gives you great powers of discernment. It is only in the
heart that the truth can be felt. In the intellect, truth
can be contemplated but not fully grasped. In the final
“understanding,” it is only the heart that knows
what is true. Therefore, embracing your emotions leads you
to the simple truth: The truth of who you are and what is
the most loving choice for you in each and every moment.
The intellect can never do this.
Another truth is that we are
all One. Therefore when we do for
others we are ultimately doing for ourselves. That being
said, it would greatly increase your feeling of connectedness
(the opposite of loneliness) for you to find some way to
be of service to others. Being of service also gives you
a feeling of appreciation for your own life and that is
how your reality expands into more of what you want and
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